Well, it's going to take longer than 30 days of NC.

Has OM changed his mind about the baby and getting M? B/c at one time he didn't want any part of it.

Did your lawyer advise you to D her before or after the birth of the baby? Maybe laws have changed now, but use to be if she was still M when the baby was born, the H would be child s legal parent. Therefore, the H was responsible for child support. But if tests prove baby is not H's child, I don't know.

I think men do get into some type of competition with W's OM. It becomes a matter of winning for them. But you have to look at the big picture. Do you want the drama of W/OM for years to come?

I don't see her being able to distant herself from OM while she's pregnant.......nor after the birth. I can't see her going 30 days with NC, either.

She really had the nerve to tell you to trust her!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!