Today he said he wanted a Bluetooth speaker for his iPhone from *the kids* for birthday/father's day. I told him to send me a link (he gave me a very nice birthday present in April but no Mother's Day gift, unless you count the grocery store orchid).
I'm not up on your situation at all but WOW! he has cajones!
Ask your kids what they'd like to get him or make for him and help that happen, if possible.
Let him purchase his own bluetooth.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
