Stop meeting his needs... I'm not really sure which of his needs I'm meeting at the moment. We have practically no relationship except when we are with the kids. Not letting people bad mouth him is more about protecting me & the kids than protecting him (except not outing the affair, and even that is more about protecting my privacy than his).
I do appreciate your thoughts, so if you can see that I'm doing more for him than I realized I absolutely would like to hear.
Thanks.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
