I plan on being very careful. As I said he make think 2 weeks, but I don't know that it will happen. He was very open and apologetic at the beginning, but as the day progressed I could see his comfort level diminish.
I have taken a step back again and just following his lead for right now. If he calls, great, I'll answer. If he doesn't, then I'll just leave it alone.
He knows I'm in therapy and has asked about it, but to this point I don't tell him anything about it. Maybe it's something in the future he might want, but that will be for him to bring up.
And yes, transparency on his part is a must. I don't believe there is ow. But I know I could be wrong about that. I don't want to know the details of what he's been doing, I don't want to live in the past, but to move forward, you are right, he will have to be transparent.
