Excellent point!

My goals in detaching:

1. No calling Mr. Wonderful just to chat--until further notice.
2. Keep our convos on track with what is important and needs to be discussed. Right now, offer no more (he's not in a position to hear me).
3. When he WANTS to talk, be empathetic and validate
4. Stop any thought process that desires to turn the convo to me and what I'm feeling (a strong desire lately)
5. Be his friend.

Am I missing anything?


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein