Okay, now that I have some time to actually write...
Quote: On my travels after work yesterday, I decided that my best course of action in my dealings with Mr. Wonderful right now are to detach some more (lovingly, of course).
I think the more detached we become (and STAY) the better off we'll be right now. I think progress tends to lessen the detachment and thus leaves us confused as hell when we turn around and realize how much this alien behavior is affecting us all of a sudden. An invisible string pulls us closer to our marriage as we see progress and we become less detached. If that makes sense.
At least that is what I've seen in myself recently. Getting upset this week over what wouldn't have bothered me last month or the month before. Becuase, I have seen progress and that has jerked my string to pull me closer.
Now, what are your goals in detaching further?
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian
