It's been 1.5 weeks no contact and I have heard that this can push someone closer to AP.
I think they are already as close and it can get!!! Look right now she is having her fun knowing her husband is hurt by it (she really doesn't care) and he won't go anywhere!! She will keep this up until the youngest graduates then off to Israel she goes and just visits the kids. Or he will continue this back and forth indefinitely!! He doesn't care...I'm sure he has another Hunny in Israel also!!
Your wife is getting her husband to take care of the Kids and Home while she continues to play around why should she stop? Because she is hurting you? She knows you are hurt by it and doesn't really care and knows also that you will take it!! Your opportunity to stop it has really past and if your not seriously willing to end your marriage then it will continue!!! She does not believe you.....action speaks louder than words!!!