You need to finish those books to understand the advice you'll be given. You need to focus on yourself.
As for the car, can you afford all payments by yourself: loan, insurance, registration, servicing, etc? Would you be comfortable financially if you lived by yourself with a new car?
I'll be fine, car will be baught out full payment up front, insurance is fine and yeah I'll be able to maintain and run it.
I know how to service a car so I'd do that myself to be honest I have a bigger engine sized car atm so it should be easier if anything.
So should I get it? Would it give her more reasons to stay?