^^^ agreed on both counts! I'm really inspired by 25years story. Thank you for sharing so much and for taking the time to offer such thoughtful advice, 25years.
Hope, unfortunately we can't make our H be the parent we wish they would be (mine is perfectly content to give up time with his D so that he can watch the world cup...or sleep late... ); we can only work hard to be the parent WE want to be. I wonder if it is possible to look at your situation as a wonderful gift... the opportunity to be the kind of parent you wished you'd had.
