It's incredibly stupid the things I have hung on to. The things I placed value on during my m. The things I regarded as important. I didn't communicate well with w during our marriage. I rarely voiced my needs but instead stuffed everything into my little internal box, let it fester and build. I thought I was being the " bigger person" for letting things slide. Idiot. But on the other side there were things I voiced as important to me. She ignored them. How do we correct this in ourselves??? I understand I need to take responsibility for what I didn't say but how do I take responsibility for the things I did say but were never heard?
