Just thinking more about my situation. On May 8th W came to me told me she loved me and wanted to be back with me. At the time OM and her weren't broken up and he was more than ready to take care of the baby. She broke up with him, things went crazy and they got back together on May 23rd.
After that point I heard from W's brother saying she was thinking OM and her were going to get married soon after the divorce.... I don't know if that is true, but if OM were going to marry her doesn't that give her some security.
So my question is why is she running from him now? I didn't tell her to go. OM wants to take care of the baby with her and maybe even marry her. He's not backing away. He even emailed her the night before she left saying they should do counseling together. But by going away for nearly a month she's in risk of losing our kids to me totally. I even warned her before she left that this trip is not going to look good in court for her.
The only reasons I can think she's doing this are because she actually loves me (not bloody likely) or she's trying to do the right thing for her family (probably the reason, which is at least an admirable one).
