Mine hadn't spoken in months, well with an ow, why would he need to?

For me I need a formal agreement, as when he does talk he contradicts himself. I want it written I want it sorted. I want it negotiated in a more fair manner than his way of I owe him.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26