So I have another question, and it's a troubling one.
During my intel gathering, I saw a few conversations that revolved around my WAW trying to determine the status of her A. She is seeking more than the OM will provide, he said she's too busy with kids, doesn't have time, and he doesn't want to do long distance. My W also said that I was doing everything I could to save everything.
So I fear two things. I have erred if that is her perception, and clearly I am plan B. She told the OM that she wants more, he won't provide it. And she still doesn't want to be with me. It hurts. And makes me wonder if I need to get even more into LRT?
I'm not sure if it's the start of her A falling apart or not. I previously have pointed out to her how she is being used, but now I know better and don't even discuss it. She is upset from what I gathered because he has no interest in meeting anyone significant in her family, or my children ( for which I am happy obviously). I'm really not sure what my next smart step would be. The crunch is comjng for her as she has to move out of the house she is in.
As long as she thinks that I'm always available as second choice, I don't think she's going to choose to do anything. Of course, I'm failing badly at worrying about myself and not her at this time.
