Bleagh (I mean Bets )- Not a good PMA situation at all. You handled it like the pro you are, though! I'm inclined to agree with Meredith that all this weirdness on his part is due to grief - I think he's just taking some cave time to process it all. You are doing just fine! (((((((Betsey)))))))) Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.