Still waiting it out.. 8 months on..

[GoatGal]

I hope Luke and Lou don't mind me jumping on here.

My H is a serious conflict-avoider, can't handle anything he perceives as criticism, has never been able to tell me how to share my thoughts with him if it conflicts with his ideas... it's been difficult.

I am a confident person, independent, but I wouldn't say "dominant". However, he is rather passive and this has set up a dynamic where I have had to make a lot of decisions and he would do this passive-aggressive thing with dragging his feet or "forgetting". Anyhow, not to hijack your thread... I just wasn't sure how to connect with both of you since you seem to be discussing something relevant to my situation.

--Goat Gal