What you've been describing sounds a lot like you and your W have been speaking foreign languages to one another for many years, and eventually gave up even trying. No person can be as selfish and demanding and manipulative as you've described your W. I've met lots of people who were truly difficult, and even they had redeeming qualities that kept them from being as dark as you've written your W.
She isn't maybell, As I said I started off rough and angry. I'm slowing down to think. I can only claim my responsibilities in the m failing. And I have many. But you are right or at least it's a line to explore that we spoke different languages. Thank you
