FTR, this sound like one of the most selfish responses I have seen. Damn dude! “gave up most of my personal enjoyment”. Lemme ask you….how much did she give up for you?


I think I'd argue this one. Again I'm obviously not good at relaying my emotional state.
I think I did support her and her work and wants. Very much so. Almost anything she expressed a desire to do I supported and assisted wherever I could. I don't think she would argue that. From her recreational actives to returning to school to finish her degree and complete a masters I was supportive. And not just financially. I volunteered at her events I changed my schedules to meet hers I listen to her, read her papers from school when she asked. I even read some of her assigned readings when she wanted to be able to discuss topics and wanted me to understand. So although you say it sounds selfish I really did support her choices and decisions. And not just with my checkbook. But with my time.