Have you considered getting an apartment in both countries, so when you went back to spend time with your daughter, you would have a place for her and you?
You really must get out from the bondage you feel with your W. Why wait to follow her lead? Prepare for your new life. Aren't you tired of being kicked around like a dead cat that's in her way?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
