Sorry ambivelant. I think the last few post are me saying I take a huge responsibility for what's happened Why am I here? Why is anyone here. Yes I stated I was fine with going forward with divorce. But does that mean I can't continue to look and examine. I had hope right up until recently. But I'm asking if you lose that feeling of love can it come back? You said to work on the marriage. Obviously we both tried but we hadn't really identified the problem. By the time we did I felt empty. Are you telling me I'm not allowed? Through ic I have identified many of my own issues . I know the things I have done and am working to correct. I guess I was hoping that in here someone would say ya I fell out of love. I lost the hope and feelings and here are some things I did to correct that. I guess not
