I don't know you rick so it's hard to say why your w fell out of love. I only can say that for me when there is no trust compassion empathy respect then love is very difficult to maintain. My w calls herself a strong woman. When you put labels on things it becomes easy to justify behavior. She would say I do this or that because I'm a strong woman. Sorry if you don't like it. There was no ability or room for anything in her but her.