Thanks. I think I can see the light on the other side a bit - I am a lot happier when in the States, doing, as you say, what I please, meeting new people, etc. I am thankful for the opportunities I've had there - at least 30% of the past decade has been good!
Just need to get through this rough patch - batten the hatches - Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.