Cross country DB with WAS

[Anders]

Bear with me Underdog, we are almost coming to the present and on the trust track.

However, within a few days, W became WAW.

By the next visit when I went over a few weeks late, she was completely cold. For the next eight months (Jan-Aug 2013) I continued to try to always be positive around her, work on my issues (IC, reading books, attending talks, gym, running, etc).

But at the same time, I was actively seeking for 'quick fixes' for our R.

I tried approaches from several marriage and reconciliation books & websites. I still had not yet come across DB at this stage. I didn't think we were anywhere close to that.

However, the problem was that I didn't follow through. I was jumping from resource to resource just wanting us to be 'back together'.

This would lead me to major trust breaker incident #2.