GAL isn't about going out until 3am while your wife is at home. I never go out at night and yet I live for myself inside and outside the house, day and night. Do you have hobbies? Do you have friends? Are you a member of any clubs or sports teams? GAL is about doing things for you.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014