Strange days...

[2ndTimeHurt]

This was one of her last texts to me. I've not responded, but would very much like to correct the many things she has wrong.


I think me calling you and trying to find solutions is being sincere.(she only called regarding a scratch s3 had. He said her cat was rough. She called to tell me that s3 was lying and that he was being rough with the cat)

It's always my intention to not I've step boundaries, and me calling you am ass-hole is when I've reached my breaking point and that's why I hung up. (She's justifying why she called me an assh*le?!??, this was after I apologized for calling her immature and selfish)

I am trying to build a life for myself, and I'm sorry if that's a problem for you.(I've never said it was a problem for me. Her actions and reckless behavior(driving without a license) is what I have a problem with)

I know what's best for me, and I know how to take precaution when it comes to our son. That includes the people in his life.
I'm sry if you don't agree with everything I'm doing. I don't believe the same rule book applies to everyone. There is no right or wrong. (There may not be a right or wrong, but her claiming my thoughts are important then defending everything she's done and ignoring my thoughts is just plain ridiculous. She clearly doesn't know how to take precaution if she's moving her relationship at warp speed and throwing my son into the middle of all this. Good thing I'm still his primary caregiver, although she probably sees it as 50/50.)

Just to give you guys am idea of how involved she is with our son. She drew up a schedule and it goes like this....

I have him Monday, Tuesday. I drop him off on "her" day(wed) at 7:30pm. She drops him off at my place at 8:30 am the next morning. I drop him off on "her" day(thurs) at 7:30 pm. She drops him off at my place at 8:30 fri. I have him until sat when I drop him off again at 7:30pm. Then I get him on Sunday again at 2pm. Out of all those days how many times does she feed him? Not many. She drops him off without brushing his teeth and I gotta ask if his teeth are brushed. Wtf?!?!