Ambivalent, Victim?? No. I'm not being a victim. Truly not. I didn't "woe is me" during our marriage. I fell out of love. Of course I have issues and defects. What human doesn't. And during the course of our marriage I verbalized a lot of things that were simply ignored. My fault maybe. This may be db but I've read a lot of posts in here. Not all charitable. Not all working towards an r. I stated what I've come from and how I feel. You can see my anger and hurt
