Indeed! I would advise any and all to never move into a house with another family. It is a marriage killer.
I have to agree with Sandi here. My wife and I had an interesting dance throughout our marriage, but i think the real troubles started when she moved her father in without even consulting me. He was a very over bearing domineering man. Everyone used to say if he murdered someone if front of my wife and her sister they would say it was somebody else dressed like him...
He eventually started to act like his daughter was his wife and my house was his...
Thus began the destruction of my marriage.
Anyhow, your story with your wife leaving is similar to mine. The difference is mine moved home for my son, started to reconnect with me ( all fake) and went back to visit OM in his country....
I would be really careful letting her back in while the affair is ongoing...I am in loads of pain right now and would hate to see anyone else go through what I am...o feel for you brother...I really do...
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965