What is my Next Move?

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Today I met with the IC that my wife sees. As I have stated before she was our MC last year. Now she is doing " relationship counseling" basically she does this for situations where a couple is in-house separated or coparenting.

She is a pro-marriage therapist and told my wife if it was up to her she would try to save us.

Truth is her focus now is two-fold , one is that we don't kill each other and/ or I don't have a nervous breakdown.

The second and Her main focus is the well being of my son. Even though he is not on the spectrum for Aspergers or Autism, we have been told by multiple specialists to treat him as if he is.

I told her I was ready to go plan B and just move out...she told me that would destroy my son, and that taking him with me or kicking her out right now is detrimental. She told me to basically do a DB 180 when WAW returns.

IC wants me to hang on for my son. IC told me to wait to see WAW reaction to me being in the Master Bedroom. She said if she no longer wants to share the bed, she needs to sleep elsewhere not me.

When I broached the subject of infidelity and the fact that this past Wednesday was the Jewish Holiday that is the day god gave Moses the Ten Commandments and she was in POSOM bed, I got an interesting revelation.

Apparently she WS said that she told the counselor that once she was " committed" with a ring to OM she felt it was ok to violate her marriage vows...the therapist believes that pos is such a pro with these quasi-religious woman that he knows that, hence the entire engagement thing...

It's all so twisted up in my mind that I feel like I am married to a mental patient.

Hence MC or IC, or RC...MY HEAD HURTS what ever she really is...
Said at least try to get S16 through eleventh grade...but I need to GAL.