Hi labug! I spent a few weeks reading threads here and saw many folks dealing with similar kinds of crazy.

The situations are crazy not necessarily the WAS.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15