We talked a little last night and I told her I know pretty much exactly what she needs from me in a relationship. I listed it out and she just smiled.
First rec, you are dealing with so much. I hope you find comfort with your praying and elsewhere. If anyone deserves comfort, you do.
Second, what do you think of her reaction to you talking about what she needs from you in R? IMO, it doesn't seem positive. Something similar to telling someone you love them and their reply is "Thank you".
And why even discuss what W can get from you? It seems like it should be about what needs to happen to start process of working on R by W meeting Rec's boundaries.
There seems to be a cycle of "Rec done -> W shows interest -> Rec talks possibility of recon -> W's interest lessens -> Repeat"
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me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
