I have to say, this conversation about transparency makes me feel quite hopeless. I can't see how I can 'snoop' on H while we are physically separated. He is aware of the things I have access to (phone records, CC) so I don't think he would be THAT dumb to use them (he knows I do look at them on occasion). So what are my intel options while we're not even physically together?
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14