Sorry to find you here under those circumstances, but you cannot find a more supportive community than here in the DB forum.
All newbies stumble on how to validate their wayward spouses in the first few weeks/months. All's not lost! There's a helpful resource right here for you.
You might want to check this thread out on proper validation:
Keep going here...come back here often and post. In order to get more traffic back to your thread, I'd suggest that you post in other DBer's threads that you like and resonate with you. It is a buddy system here.
