Somewhere down the line all this is going to fall into place if you keep doing the work and you'll realize that you are enough. You'll find that living alone doesn't have to be lonely, that a good partner is great but no partner is better than a lousy partner.
Bringing this over from another thread because it struck a chord with me. Didn't want to hi-jack there but also didn't want to lose the thougt
Two initial thoughts:
1. Is this comment about partners a totally binary one - in other words can you have a partner that is somewhere north of lousy by south of good? 2. Or is ^^^ just another rationalization for WAS behavior and maybe indicates fear?
No answers yet, just an initial reaction and more to think about....
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
