Continuing my DB'ing journey...

[woundedfool]

Your going to need to keep reading, and re-reading til it sinks in:

Have you had us say here: "believe 1/2 of what you SEE and NONE of what you hear".

You seem to believe 100% of the pics/texts you SEE

Wounded - you know me! Always mind reading.

I received some screen shots from a friend of H's of texts h sent him back in February talking about the teenager. 'She is so supportive of me and I can't wait for you to meet her you'd really like her she's been there for me and understands what I'm going through because she has been through a divorce with her parents. She has my best interest. She said that W clearly makes me unhappy and that I shouldn't settle for a M like that.'

My point was, while a picture/text can be worth a thousand words..... you have no idea what those thousand words are.

While I am mind reading now (because I can from the sidelines ).... You think the pics/texts mean the friends think:

• Oh, what a happy couple
• They look great together
• Glad they found each other
• He is much happier now

I contend, they are more likely to say:

• ewwwww...
• Oh god, I can't believe they actually showed up
• She's nice and all, but do you know she just graduated?
• I guess he is living on her parents couch
  
  You need to work on that as a believing half/none a whole lot more.