Well now I don't know what to do. When I think about trying to be a good person and leaving it with him it makes me sad and angry. But if I take it, will that hurt our chances of R, even if it's just a little bit, because he will think I am being a B? No choice seems helpful right now.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final