Could it be he is feeling a bit wary because he is realizing how important to him you are( with his mum's passing) and this is making him a bit uncertain? Not aboout you but about himself......?? He's also been sharing himself more lately than in recent history and this has got to be making him a little gunshy too......
I have to agree with Trish here - I know sometimes I get a little scared when I'm feeling really vulnerable, and so I pull back somewhat.
I say keep up your positive attitude...don't pry too much and have patience.......letting him know that sharing may make him vulnerable but you won't take advantage of that......
I think I am going to take this advice and use it for myself - thanks, Trish!
Don't be surprised if he pulls back even more....He is hyper sensitive right now to that fact that he shares so much with you.
Sometimes closeness is a little scary, and maybe he is just in his "cave" a bit. You know we're all here if it weirds you out too much and you need us.
Have a great weekend, Betsey! Enjoy your pampering... Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
