Thank you cadet. I am trying to GAL, I know I haven't had much of one with a full time job, 3 kids, a house to take care of. I don't even know much about myself anymore.
H and I have been going to counseling for a few sessions, I know some of you don't believe in it, but it was a way to buy time when he said he wanted to move out. He is very closed off, never wants to talk about anything. He did say he had put the OW "on hold" but appears he's still talking to her at least.
He is leaving Tuesday for a business trip and then I am taking the kids to visit family in another state. We will be apart 2 weeks and I'm concerned what will happen once I'm out of the picture. Any advice?
