In my situation, if my W does want to talk R tonight , and I have no idea if she will or what she wants to chat about, it will only happen if the OM and A is done. If that's the case I will open up my windows again
And on a side note, I think with snooping we need to be careful as well. Where I live, legally you could put yourself in a really bad position. The courts have come down on S that have cyber spied. It affected custody and financial affairs.
