I agree with Starsky, you just need to pay attention to habits, as I've noticed the same thing. The information is there. My W still leaves her phone around when she is with the kids, and I have the ability still to get on it. Just have chosen actively not to at this time.

Besides being busted, which in a lot of ways helped my stitch, I've got some new fun toys, a voice activated recorder, GPS locator, and an iphone spy stick. For those quiet nights at home.

For me, information can be a powerful guide for decision making. Why not give yourself as much as possible, provided you can handle it?


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive