BTW, SemperFi, don't think I grasped the DB concepts quickly. I did EVERYTHING wrong for 7-8 months. Buying DR and joining the forum were pretty much the last ditch changes I made AFTER the separation was a done deal. And even after I started all that he still has been chasing OW. If I'd had these resources sooner I might have been able to avoid part of the train wreck. So don't beat yourself up too much, we do the best we can with who we are and what we've got.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.