[BrightFuture]

Bea, I am so sorry to that you are still dealing with your XH’s nonsense. I laughed at your comparison of MLCer thinking with the software. It is so true, when multiple version clash with each other, it stops functioning and even crushes.

My H is not a mean MLCer thought, and he doesn’t blame me for everything. On the opposite, he’s been actually very nice most of the time recently. I also don’t think that he objectifies me. As far as him forgetting how to do certain things… Well, I took care of that stuff for a long time. And he is not very techi guy when it comes to the computers. This is why I’m surprised that he purchased the software upgrade on his own (it was my job before). Not bad for a guy who wants to get rid of the computer, LOL.

You are right that they need the reassurance. It feels like that. Just the fact that he told me that he will send an updated file says a lot. I didn’t ask for the file, I don’t need an update right now. I think he just wants me to still be involved in the business. I guess it is “safer” this way. I guess he hasn’t found anyone who he can rely on as much as he could rely on me, and still can. I also think that he is kind of uncomfortable, if not scarred, because with me getting a job, he no longer can expect me to keep doing things for the business. He is on his own now. I’m pretty sure he is very capable of doing everything he needs to do. Whether he would prefer not to, is a different story.