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she was afraid I was getting my support from people in LaLaland



Yeah, I never know quite how to approach that. I'm getting these really amazing insights from...dum dum dum - the internet! And some of the wisest people I've ever met...are people I've never met! I just kind of keep quiet about it - one: because I'm afraid they'd come visit the site and try and find me - not that I have any secrets, but still..
And two - I think they'd just think it's weird that I could get so much out of an online support group. But I DO, especially from your thread, Betsey, and Meredith's thread. My sitch made great leaps after I found this site, because I was finally getting the kind of support I needed. Sorry for the diverging from your main point, CBH, but I just had to comment on that.
Here's to BB friends!

One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.