Cross country DB with WAS

[bashy]

Hi db. I'm being her friend. Not bringing up our relationship (past or future). Helping her with D or the odd job in house if needed as her dad is ill in hospital. Going a little dark regarding texts/phone calls. I rarely text or ring her except with regard to D. Being happy around her and confident. Dressing well all the time. Trying to smell nice too.

However, there have been blips and I could do better (You can read them on my posts)... I need to not answer the phone within seconds every time she rings. I need to not 'be there' all the time when she needs me. I need to GAL more.

However, AGAIN, if you read my story you will find that even these aren't always the best ways to go. DB vet '25' has been a great help with me in this regard.