Great advice. I will be following Sandi's and your suggestions regarding the conversation, if it actually occurs.
With respect to your questions Starsky, I'm not 100 percent sure, but I think the OM is still involved. I've completely stopped snooping, but I think she has plans still to see him. I haven't asked any questions or brought up the OM in a long time. I guess I will ask if we have the conversation tomorrow. Not so much ask, but emphasize that nothing will happen while she is involved with the OM.
Legal proceedings are not occurring at this time yet. I have protected myself and my kids and our assets as best as I can, and have a L that I am consulting with when I have legal questions. We need to wait a year here anyways. Time may or may not be on my side.
Thanks for the suggestions guys, for something to work with now. I'll see what happens now.
