Yes, frozen is a fair description. I am working on thawing things, fwiw. W has not filed, yet, and I arguably have felt happy recently, without her...
No worries on the d16 front - she was so nice today - I took to heart the advice given here of never stopping the love for your kids.
No reaction from W on my mutual information re the kids note (actually no communication from W at all, the whole 4+ weeks I was gone).
Yes, let's make a get together happen. I am sorry it did not this time around. I'll be more often up your way due to my nephew starting school there this fall.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.