I wasnt saying that what you wrote doesnt apply. I was saying that I didnt know exactly what that means or how I can apply this to whats going on. By no means do I think that my situation is unique. I do agree that she has also caused some of the issues in our marriage and I dont think i understood that before doing alot of reading. Im praying that she is willing to admit some fault here and that she is also willing to work on fixing things.
As Mr Bond said above she might be willing to admit to some fault but it will be years down the road. Not right now.
So as far as how this applies to you, it is exactly what it says
Believe none of what she says and Half of what she does.
Another words ACTIONS not WORDS.
And I would say the same thing to her, to believe YOUR actions not YOUR words. So if you want to speak to her use actions to communicate not words.
