You mentioned that your IC said you should be 100% certain that you are getting D before telling the kids. My H is 100% certain and has actually filed. I still hope that there is a chance, but I think I'm living in denial if I don't acknowledge it as a certainty. I do wonder, what if we tell her and then R?
There are a lot of things that aren't changing that I can emphasize. I am fortunate to be able to keep my house, so that stays the same along with school and neighborhood friends. I need to make a list.
