you sound like a good man. I wish good things for you - and I think your approach is about as good as it can be, given the givens.
Keep us posted.
Thanks. For sure.
It's funny, I'm sure I'm not alone in this but I'm really pleasantly surprised how much just reading information from other people has helped, not the least of which being Michele's expertise.
I'm aware I could be completely wrong about everything; maybe that will come up in therapy, for example. But I think I'm more on the right track than not with it being a physiological issue more than an external factor such as my own behavior.
So we'll see. I love her terribly. One day, we'll both have more answers (hopefully sooner than later). Until then, I've got a lot of tools I'm using everyday, including this site, to make sure I don't contribute to making things any worse as best as I can.