There seem to be so many obstacles to trying to make any sort of R a possibility.
I told my W in an email last night that we are facing some major financial issues and I hoped that she and I could come to some sort of solution for them. I've received no response from her at all. The financial issues we're facing have all come about from our situation, before this we were tight but things were being managed.
My W is not contributing to paying for our mortgage or any of the other expenses related to our home. We have listed the acreage for sale but it's likely to take a while before it will sell. I've already dug deep into my savings to keep us afloat, meanwhile my W is apparently having a great time going out shopping for shoes and clothes for herself.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS