T2, I can't believe you are Benijeserit! So, are you human or an animal?
MM, let me give you another man's take on the sex thing....don't do it! If you EVER want him to see you as anything except an object or FWB, if you ever want him to start to pursue you, do not do it! It may sound old fashioned but "Why buy the cow when the milk is free" Still applies! Some things never change and that one will always be true. Besides, how would you feel about yourself after all he's done that you would let him use you and at the same time tell you he doesn't know if he wants a R with you?

Head up MM, YOU are the prize! Not him!