Originally Posted By: Georgiabelle
However, please think about the people laughing at you. They don't know you.


And Further, I contend they are not laughing at you; no sane, logical, adult looks at him knowing he left a 10 year marriage, 2 kids, dating a 18 year old and says....

"ha-ha, T0324 sure let him slip away".

They actually say/think:

"gee, Mr. T0324 looks to be having one hell of a MLC, did you see her? she is almost 1/2 his age"

"I wonder if he will be at her grad party?"

Originally Posted By: T0324
He will be pushed away because he will know that I know. It's already been ascertained that depending on who he is with he is ashamed of what he's doing because he only admits it to certain people. He is avoiding the reality of what he's doing with people he was close with and is living in his new dream world that only includes her and her new family. So I imagine it would push him closer to them and give them something else to laugh at me about


So, do you think its a good idea to send the letter?


Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13